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can we just get this straight? if you message me on tumblr you are not annoying me i am a lonely person and any form of human contact is a god send
Hi.
But I am also awkward and shy and a bit confused and weird..
If you don’t mind. O.o
can we just get this straight? if you message me on tumblr you are not annoying me i am a lonely person and any form of human contact is a god send
So want this omg
People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.
I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.
A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?
It is a big deal because i’m a transman.
It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.
Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.
At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give same sex couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.
At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.
TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.
So… I over ate today.
I will try again.
I can try again.
That’s the point, right? Not giving up?
That will help me kick my bad habits, right?
I hope so…
I just want to share something I find disturbing and maybe hear the opinions of others
I’m a teacher and recently the middle school in the district I teach in had an evening with the girls and parents about appropriate attire as the weather is warming up . The guidance counselor running the event proceeded to slut shame a ton of 12-14 year old girls for wearing shirts where their striped bras could be seen and THEN THE KICKER!
Told them than they should feel self conscious if they have big breasts and cover them with layers. And that no one wants to see their “jiggles” so to stop wearing leggings for pants if they aren’t skinny and to invest in longer shirts and Spanx.
Yep, this happened. Not a single parent saw anything wrong with this and it took everything in me not to scream.
Xox
Kristyn